There are many reasons why I decided to write this blog.
I Write for Change
When I first decided to write my blog, I wasn’t sure if I was doing the right thing. I had kept my difficulties to myself for so long; it felt strange sharing them with the world. As I write, some days it feels great, and the next it makes me cringe. I don’t know why. I know there is a lot of misinformation around and a lot of misunderstanding, so if this helps someone and maybe creates change, it will be worth it.
My Love of Writing
I have many reasons I write. I prefer writing information down rather than making a film, as I feel very uncomfortable doing that.
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People don’t always listen, but they are more likely to read what you have written. I feel I have spent my whole life where people have not listened to me or been interested in what I have to say, and writing is where I can express myself. I feel people will hear my voice, and they will read what I have written if they are interested. People can choose to read my ideas or not; it is their choice. However, at least I have got my message across.
It’s difficult to tell people how I feel, especially when speaking to them. However, if I write something down, it gives me time to think about what I have to say and that I have all the information I want to pass on.
I love to spend time with my own thoughts. I am being productive, and it eliminates a lot of anxiety and stress because I get out what I am thinking. I can inspire people, be creative, and hopefully, people will act on what I have written.
Reasons for Change
The support for the autistic community around the world is not as good as it could be. I live in the UK, and I notice things are changing. Teachers recognise autism in schools, and the children get supported. However, they grow up, go out into the world, and the world expects them to cope. The law in the UK protects the autistic community from discrimination, which is progress, but we still have a long way to go.
My son is in a residential school, and he is twenty now. He is waiting for an adult placement so he gets the right support, as he has autism level 3. He needs guidance and help to live independently. He has been waiting for the last two years with no progress. More supported accommodation is necessary for the disabled community. What kind of society are we if we fail to care for the vulnerable?
As genetics play a part in autism, I am likely to have autistic grandchildren and others in my family will be diagnosed in the future, so the more I learn and understand about myself and others in the community it will encourage acceptance, not just awareness. It will also build a community and connection with others in the same position.
Write Your Story
When we write or film how we feel about the way the world is going at the moment, hopefully if enough of us agree there will be change. We can write about anything we feel passionate about; it does not do any harm in trying. It is therapeutic, and hopefully the world will become a better place for all of us, and not just for the small minority as is the case today.
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