ABOUT

My name is Louise. I was diagnosed with autism in my late forties.

This blog is my journey from late diagnosis, how I navigate the ups and downs of life, and the strategies I use to cope.

I also write about my lifestyle, my life experiences, and raising awareness about neurodiversity.

Autism is a spectrum, and it can look different in each person. This is one way autism can present.

This blog is for reference and education only, and not professional advice. Please consult a specialist for diagnosis or support.

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What This Blog Is and What It Is Not
Why I Write This Blog

My Journal

Why I Write This Blog

I Write for Change

When I first decided to write my blog, I wasn’t sure if I was doing the right thing. I had kept my difficulties to myself for so long; it felt strange sharing them with the world. As I write, some days it feels great, and the next it does not. I don’t know why. I know there is a lot of misinformation and misunderstanding, so if this helps someone and maybe creates change, it will be worth it.

My Love of Writing

I have many reasons I write. I prefer writing information down rather than making a film, as I feel very uncomfortable doing that.

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People don’t always listen, but they are more likely to read what you have written. I feel I have spent my whole life where people have not listened to me or been interested in what I have to say, and writing is where I can express myself. I feel people will hear my voice and read what I have written if they are interested. People can choose to read my writing or not; it is their choice. However, at least I have got my message across.

It’s difficult to tell people how I feel, especially when speaking to them. However, if I write something down, it gives me time to think about what I have to say and that I have all the information I want to pass on.

I love to spend time with my own thoughts. I am being productive, and it eliminates a lot of anxiety and stress because I get my thoughts and feelings out. I can also inspire people and be creative.

Reasons for Change

The support for the autistic community around the world is not as good as it could be. I notice things are changing. Teachers recognise autism in schools, and the children get support. However, they grow up, go out into the world, and the world expects them to cope. The law in the UK protects the autistic community from discrimination, which is progress, but we still have a long way to go.

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My son has different support needs than I do. He needs guidance and help to live independently. More supported accommodation is necessary for the disabled community. What kind of society are we if we fail to care for the vulnerable?

As genetics play a part in autism, I am likely to have autistic grandchildren and others in my family will be diagnosed in the future, so the more I learn and understand about myself and others in the community, it will encourage acceptance, not just awareness. It will also build a community and connections with others in the same position.

Write Your Story

When we write or film how we feel about the way the world is, hopefully, if enough of us agree, there will be change. We can write about anything we feel passionate about; it does no harm to try. It is therapeutic, and hopefully, the world will become a better place for all of us, and not just for the small minority, as is the case today.